Pohsuan Zaide Feed http://www.vancouverobserver.com/contributor_content/121 en Valentine's Day: all we need is love, or is it? http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/10/valentines-day-all-we-need-love-or-it Love is much more than a many-splendored thing. It's ecstatic, incredible and sheer hard work.<p><a href="http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/10/valentines-day-all-we-need-love-or-it" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/10/valentines-day-all-we-need-love-or-it#comments Life fairytales Love Is a Many-Splendored Thing Sandra Bullock The Lake House Sat, 11 Feb 2012 08:00:00 +0000 Pohsuan Zaide 1292 at http://www.vancouverobserver.com Valentine's Day: my husband left me for a younger woman. Now what? http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/06/valentines-day-my-husband-left-me-younger-woman-now-what Separating from the one you've loved is like pulling apart the ties that bind, the connections that have been forged over time and the shared life experiences; it's, at best, an exhausting thing, and...<p><a href="http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/06/valentines-day-my-husband-left-me-younger-woman-now-what" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/06/valentines-day-my-husband-left-me-younger-woman-now-what#comments Life Breaking Up Is Hard To Do Goddess Rising Heartbreak Hotel LEONARD COHEN The Joy Luck Club Tue, 07 Feb 2012 09:00:00 +0000 Pohsuan Zaide 1307 at http://www.vancouverobserver.com Valentine's Day: looking for a healthy other http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/06/valentines-day-looking-healthy-other Now that you're working towards becoming a “healthy me," you feel ready to hook up with a partner, someone to curl up with when the Vancouver weather gets nasty, someone to share the good times and...<p><a href="http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/06/valentines-day-looking-healthy-other" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/06/valentines-day-looking-healthy-other#comments Life fairy tales falling in love healthy me healthy other Tue, 07 Feb 2012 08:00:00 +0000 Pohsuan Zaide 1305 at http://www.vancouverobserver.com Valentine's Day: love quiz http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/03/valentines-day-love-quiz Dating is about going out there to meet people and have fun. You don't have to be a relationship expert to date, but you do have to be somewhat confident about who you are and what you bring to the...<p><a href="http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/03/valentines-day-love-quiz" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/03/valentines-day-love-quiz#comments Life casual dating Date relationship experts relationship help the relationship Sat, 04 Feb 2012 08:00:00 +0000 Pohsuan Zaide 1317 at http://www.vancouverobserver.com Valentine's Day: when your partner says, "It's Complicated" on Facebook http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/03/valentines-day-when-your-partner-says-its-complicated-facebook Just yesterday, you had Rihanna's "We Found Love" on blast. Now, it's two weeks before Valentine's Day, and your boyfriend's Facebook relationship status says, "It's Complicated." A posting on...<p><a href="http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/03/valentines-day-when-your-partner-says-its-complicated-facebook" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/03/valentines-day-when-your-partner-says-its-complicated-facebook#comments Life facebook and relationship love and social media relationship advice Rihanna social media and dating We Found Love Sat, 04 Feb 2012 08:00:00 +0000 Pohsuan Zaide 1309 at http://www.vancouverobserver.com Valentine's Day: if love is a verb then what are the actions? http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/02/valentines-day-if-love-verb-then-what-are-actions There isn’t a magic formula that works for everyone. Even the popular online dating site Match.com doesn't have it. There are too many variables and complexities involved in human relationships, but...<p><a href="http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/02/valentines-day-if-love-verb-then-what-are-actions" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.vancouverobserver.com/life/2012/02/02/valentines-day-if-love-verb-then-what-are-actions#comments Life how to love love relationship Match.com online dating site. advice about love relationship advice Fri, 03 Feb 2012 08:00:00 +0000 Pohsuan Zaide 1300 at http://www.vancouverobserver.com What Matters Most: Living a More Considered Life http://www.vancouverobserver.com/culture/books/2009/10/09/what-matters-most-living-more-considered-life In a telephone interview with well-regarded Jungian analyst and author James Hollis, from Houston, I spoke to him about his new book, What Matters Most: Living a More Considered Life. I asked him...<p><a href="http://www.vancouverobserver.com/culture/books/2009/10/09/what-matters-most-living-more-considered-life" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.vancouverobserver.com/culture/books/2009/10/09/what-matters-most-living-more-considered-life#comments Books Life People James Hollis C.G. Jung Society of Vancouver Interview James Hollis Sat, 10 Oct 2009 04:51:00 +0000 Pohsuan Zaide 2057 at http://www.vancouverobserver.com How to Become a Healthier Me http://www.vancouverobserver.com/%5Btermalias-raw%5D/2009/01/14/how-become-healthier-me If you’ve taken the Dating and/or the Relationship Quizzes previously posted in this column &#40;Dec 17, 2008&#41;, you will have some idea of the things I will be talking about in this one. Though...<p><a href="http://www.vancouverobserver.com/%5Btermalias-raw%5D/2009/01/14/how-become-healthier-me" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.vancouverobserver.com/%5Btermalias-raw%5D/2009/01/14/how-become-healthier-me#comments Thu, 15 Jan 2009 08:00:00 +0000 Pohsuan Zaide 1297 at http://www.vancouverobserver.com How to Navigate a Relationship: Dealkillers Vs. Negotiables http://www.vancouverobserver.com/%5Btermalias-raw%5D/2008/12/30/how-navigate-relationship-dealkillers-vs-negotiables Dear Wisegal:<p><a href="http://www.vancouverobserver.com/%5Btermalias-raw%5D/2008/12/30/how-navigate-relationship-dealkillers-vs-negotiables" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.vancouverobserver.com/%5Btermalias-raw%5D/2008/12/30/how-navigate-relationship-dealkillers-vs-negotiables#comments Wed, 31 Dec 2008 08:00:00 +0000 Pohsuan Zaide 1298 at http://www.vancouverobserver.com Online Dating FAQ’s http://www.vancouverobserver.com/%5Btermalias-raw%5D/2008/12/08/online-dating-faq%C3%A2%E2%82%AC%E2%84%A2s Regardless of which mechanism you choose to launch yourself into the dating arena, you will likely be considering the following questions: 1. How should I present myself? How much shall I reveal? 2....<p><a href="http://www.vancouverobserver.com/%5Btermalias-raw%5D/2008/12/08/online-dating-faq%C3%A2%E2%82%AC%E2%84%A2s" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.vancouverobserver.com/%5Btermalias-raw%5D/2008/12/08/online-dating-faq%C3%A2%E2%82%AC%E2%84%A2s#comments Tue, 09 Dec 2008 08:00:00 +0000 Pohsuan Zaide 1310 at http://www.vancouverobserver.com