Jayne Doxtater is writing a serialized story about the journey she has been on since discovering that her husband had the goal of becoming a woman. The story of Jayne's husband, Ricci, (formerly Rick) appeared in the Province in early April. Now Jayne tells her story, taking us inside the story in a very deep way. Her vivid prose illuminates what it is like to be in love with a man who becomes a woman. She also details the impact of her husband's choice on their family and friends. The story will appear as a serialized column over the next year. It is copyrighted and to reprint any part of it, please obtain Jayne's permission first.